The most obvious feature of a petty person, a self-interested person, is not interested in right and wrong, regardless of right and wrong, but only wants to benefit himself.
The gentleman is peaceful but does not agree, the petty person is equal but does not get along.
In communication and dealing with people, a gentleman is always generous and tolerant of everyone, but still persists in his views and thoughts, does not support and follow the dark forces. Meanwhile, the petty people who associate always seek profit, rely on power, embrace harm to their own interests, outwardly seem to unite and agree, but when they turn their backs, they secretly attack and destroy the opponent.
The most obvious feature of the petty person, the mind of self-interest is not interested in right and wrong, regardless of right and wrong, but only wants to profit for himself, even trampling on the interests and honor of others. This type of person always wears a mask of disguise, pretends to be nice to everyone, lets others relax their defenses before him, and then takes the opportunity to profit for himself.
The more self-interest, the more harm. The more you fight, the more you harm yourself. The gentleman will not rely on others, flatter the authority. They do not easily agree with others, always have their own opinions, are ready to support people in distress, this is the meaning of harmony but different, making a precious essence.
Traits of a petty man
1. In front of you, the petty person will say you are good, criticize the other person as bad, but in front of the other person, you are a bad guy, even causing arguments and conflicts that are hard to heal.
2. With people who have no value to take advantage of, they will certainly never think of getting close and close.
3. If you make a mistake or act in your work, the petty person will insist on not admitting it, but looking for a substitute to bear the burden.
4. You work hard, while the petty people just stand in one place, waiting to pick the sweet fruit.
5. Likes to fabricate stories, disadvantage others, smear opponents, improve themselves.