Did you know, recently, scientists from India conducted a study of married couples to determine how often arguing affects their relationship.
The results showed that 44% of the respondents said that arguing plays an important part in marital happiness. They say arguing more than once a week leads to more open communication between the two.
Not only that, another 14-year study also concluded that couples who argue regularly (but in a peaceful way) cannot be separated.
Arguing more than once a week will help open communication between the two of you.
This study was conducted among 79 couples across the Midwest region of the United States. According to FamilyShare, the common thing between happy couples is that they often spend time arguing about common life topics, talking openly and giving sincere suggestions.
Arguing is giving arguments to convince the other party, in a positive and healthy way, to express emotions on a shared level. Meanwhile, arguing is a more negative job, when the speaker has no listener and one of them always likes to “jump” into the other person’s mouth.
In fact, the enemy that kills relationships the fastest is hiding emotions and just keeping quiet . When emotions are hidden, it’s like a bomb just waiting to explode. Even if the emotion is suppressed for too long, it will turn into resentment. And the fact that you often argue will bring about an emotional change in your relationship, helping the two sides understand each other better and thereby, the more lasting love.
Frequent arguments help the two sides understand each other better and thus, the stronger the love.
Sandy Burris, who has been married for nearly 60 years, said : “We argue all the time when we can. Because there will be a lot of things we disagree or disagree with. If we always easily agree or let go, the relationship will be extremely boring.”
According to Professor William Doherty from the department of family sociology, at the University of Minnesota, family disputes also have a positive impact on children’s upbringing. “If the kids never saw their parents arguing, they would think the marriage was fake.
But if the argument is at a harsh level, disparaging, cursing and even fighting, this also has a bad impact on the child’s psyche. Happy debates on the basis of peace and goodwill help children feel happy and develop thinking.
If you regularly argue with your partner, both of you will get three unexpected benefits:
You will need to practice listening skills in order to better understand your partner.
So, if you want a healthy relationship, you shouldn’t shy away from arguments. But that’s not why you run home to quarrel with your “other half” immediately after reading this article.
It is important to remember that an argument is not a battle to confront, but simply a way for two people who are in a confrontational position to look in the same direction, and stand on the same front. . You will need to practice listening skills in order to better understand your partner.
Couples, please remember, quarrel peacefully and in a spirit of receptivity !